Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Boy Meets World really was the straightest show on TV. Image credit.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Tom has a bit of a fey thing going on in his persona that, you know, you can’t really deny. When I first looked at his audition tape, I said ‘OK, he, uh, he seems kinda gay. Do we want to make that decision [about the character]? There’s no reason why he couldn’t be, so, great, let’s pick the funniest actor.’ The character became very charming in his complete lack of awareness about, among other things, his own sexuality. Joss Whedon on Andrew Wells’ (BtVS) sexuality
Monday, May 13, 2013 Monday, April 22, 2013
One word that will almost immediately shut down a conversation with a gay person or a straight ally is “lifestyle.” It is a tremendously loaded word when used in the context of discussing gay or lesbian relationships. It conjures up pictures of seedy hotels and anonymous sex. It’s thousands of partners and diseases. Every negative stereotype that one might associate with gay behavior is wrapped up in the word “lifestyle.”
In the midst of a call for compassion, the language used is not compassionate. While asking for more understanding in the midst of disagreement, it misses a basic piece in making the communication less disagreeable.

Choosing Words Carefully (via azspot)

I did not know this and will take it into consideration.  I’ve actually never associated those stereotypes with anyone in any community, so this never occurred to me.  So, I’m partially reblogging in case anyone else was not aware.

(via sigfodr)

The quote might be a little extreme, but I get where they’re coming from.  ’Lifestyle’ should be a neutral term, but it is predominantly used as a synonym for ‘life choice’ these days unfortunately.

Wednesday, April 10, 2013
I got some hate mail for Willow being a lesbian, so I simply said: I realize I’m talking about a lifestyle that is embraced by less than 10% of America, and it’s not right to be shoving that down your throats. SO, Willow will no longer be a Jew. Joss Whedon
Thursday, March 28, 2013

The New Normal is a decent show, but it’s so damn preachy. Not every episode needs to be about highlighting some LGBT-related societal flaw.

In fact, the show is going to turn moderate-minded people OFF by shoving a liberal agenda down their throats.  And I’m a liberal saying this.  That doesn’t mean the show shouldn’t tackle LGBT-related issues, but there are far more subtle ways to do that than trying to force an overt moral message into every single episode.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013 Monday, March 25, 2013 Sunday, March 24, 2013

FIREFLY Rewatch: Simon Tam is SO gay. Like, SO.SO. gay.

Maybe that’s an unpopular opinion.  I just remember getting pissed the first time I watched Firefly when he and Kaylee started flirting.  I’m not referring to Sean Maher as an actor (though he is gay).  I’m saying Simon, as a character, just always seemed gay from the beginning.  And honestly, I think it would have been a great opportunity for Joss to have a lead, openly gay male character in one of his shows/films (something STILL lacking from all his projects- Andrew doesn’t really count).

Thursday, March 14, 2013 Saturday, March 9, 2013 Friday, March 8, 2013
‎We are still a young country, and many of our landmark civil rights decisions are fresh enough that the voices of their champions still echo, even as the world that preceded them becomes less and less familiar. We have yet to celebrate the centennial of the 19th Amendment, but a society that denied women the vote would seem to us now not unusual or old-fashioned but alien. I believe that in 2013 DOMA and opposition to marriage equality are vestiges of just such an unfamiliar society. Bill Clinton (via lgbt-rights)
Tuesday, February 12, 2013

that1geek:

In a move many feel is nothing more than an effort use pre-publicity for the Ender’s Game movie to drive sales for the comic, DC has commissioned the author of the source novel, Orson Scott Card, to write the new digital comic coming in April, Adventures of Superman. Card, a long-time critic of homosexuality, has called gay marriage “the end of democracy in America”, and in 2009 he became a board member of the National Organization for Marriage, a group that campaigns against same-sex marriage. The news has sparked outrage in many circles, and here are just a few reactions. ”

Who gives a shit who DC hires? He’s writing for the fuckin’ company. DC didn’t pick him because of his beliefs and they probably don’t even care what he believes. He’s obviously a great writer or else Ender’s Game would not be awaiting release in theaters as a film, nor would DC have hired him.

Fuckin’ get over yourselves and get back to work. This guy has a pretty good view, while slightly negative, Dale Lazarov knows what’s up:

“I’ve known Orson Scott Card is a raging homophobe since the early 90s. I refuse to buy or read his work. But asking that he be denied work because he is a raging homophobe is taking it too far. Asking for workplace discrimination for any reason is counterproductive for those who want to end discrimination on their own behalf.”

While I don’t agree that anyone should boycott someone’s work because of their views, especially when they’re a talented individual, at least he’s on the semi-right side.

Supporting an author’s work but not the author’s personal views sounds alright in theory, but there are some problems with that logic when it comes to this case.  For one thing, Card is VERY vocal about his anti-LGBT views and is on the leadership board of a national hate organization.  I don’t think DC Comics would ever consider hiring someone in a hate organization like The Klu Klux Klan, so why should this case be any different?  Companies have anti-hate hiring policies for a reason, and Card’s reputation precedes him when it comes to LGBT-related hate.

Second, there are also some problems with the argument that Card is being discriminated against for his personal views.  The fact is that he himself discriminates on a daily basis by making public anti-LGBT statements, donating money to anti-LGBT causes, and serving as a leader in a national LGBT-hate organization.  Perhaps if he kept his personal opinions more to himself, things would be different.  We live in an age of political correctness, and while free speech is important… a person should be prepared to accept the consequences when he/she publicly preaches hate.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013